Life be gettin tough ya'll
Guess how many drinks I had this weekend?! Just one and it was a glass of wine! This was partly due to the fact that kinsey locked me down for the weekend because we had engagement pictures and she didn't want me lookin fluffy or hung over on Sunday morning. I didn't even put up a fight because I am not allowed to fuss about any wedding plans due to the “its Kinsey's day and I can't ruin it” clause. So I stayed in on Saturday at her request. I relaxed, worked out and ate healthy so that I would look great the following day. Too bad she ended up canceling the pictures because she got a bad sunburn at work... and she said that my new haircut makes me look too much like a lil boy. So I have to wait a few weeks to look more grown up. So I sat home alone for nothing, watching the Jonas Bros show on Disney all day. I decided I want to be on that show by the way. They need that bad influence friend on the show. I would be great, seriously. No omg jk at all going on here.
We did get into a pretty big fight, I dont remember what about, and she pulled out a lil stunt she has never done before. Since she was out of town and could not come home, which is why we fight a lot of the times, she decided to call my mom and tell on me. Granted, I may have said something super crazy like, "maybe we shouldn't get married" or something along those lines. But seriously? My mom? So then my mom calls right after I hang up with Kinsey and pretends to act like she is asking me a question. Then she pops the "how are you and Kinsey doing?" Nice try mom. I told her we were “aight,” and she said, "are you sure?" So i asked if Kinsey called her... she said, "No, why?" I told her she was the worst lier, thats why. And the worst part is that my mom was taking her side! Great!
I did find out Kinsey is myspacin with the old high school boyfriend who treated her like crap and created some problems for us early on in the relationship. He lives in Vegas now and has decided to message her... more than once. She left her screen on her page and I saw that he had written her so I “accidentally” clicked. The conversations are not sexual at all, but they are talking about how friends are doing and about high school... I dont like this one bit. I think its Ok to write one little line if you find an ex, but leave it at that. If you continue to talk it should be on the public walls. we are still dealing with a bit of that tension. Right? Maybe that contributed to my anger a bit during our tiny argument.
I feel like a lot has changed lately. It's the same but different... it's weird to explain this feeling. I thought she would be more secure with me, but its the complete opposite right now.
In other news: I ended up listening in on a convo between my neighbor and his date. They argued about her being over 40 and loving “Twilight”. It was great, I thought she was gonna walk out on him for a sec. That lead into a conversation about her best friend who also loves that movie. Then she talked about how her ex was dating her old friend and how her friend stabbed the guy and is now in jail. that would have been a date ender for me. I am so glad I am not out there in the dating pool coming across these kind of girls. haha.
Moral of the story: women in their 40's who love “Twilight” may own a knife.
WORD!!!!
We did get into a pretty big fight, I dont remember what about, and she pulled out a lil stunt she has never done before. Since she was out of town and could not come home, which is why we fight a lot of the times, she decided to call my mom and tell on me. Granted, I may have said something super crazy like, "maybe we shouldn't get married" or something along those lines. But seriously? My mom? So then my mom calls right after I hang up with Kinsey and pretends to act like she is asking me a question. Then she pops the "how are you and Kinsey doing?" Nice try mom. I told her we were “aight,” and she said, "are you sure?" So i asked if Kinsey called her... she said, "No, why?" I told her she was the worst lier, thats why. And the worst part is that my mom was taking her side! Great!
I did find out Kinsey is myspacin with the old high school boyfriend who treated her like crap and created some problems for us early on in the relationship. He lives in Vegas now and has decided to message her... more than once. She left her screen on her page and I saw that he had written her so I “accidentally” clicked. The conversations are not sexual at all, but they are talking about how friends are doing and about high school... I dont like this one bit. I think its Ok to write one little line if you find an ex, but leave it at that. If you continue to talk it should be on the public walls. we are still dealing with a bit of that tension. Right? Maybe that contributed to my anger a bit during our tiny argument.
I feel like a lot has changed lately. It's the same but different... it's weird to explain this feeling. I thought she would be more secure with me, but its the complete opposite right now.
In other news: I ended up listening in on a convo between my neighbor and his date. They argued about her being over 40 and loving “Twilight”. It was great, I thought she was gonna walk out on him for a sec. That lead into a conversation about her best friend who also loves that movie. Then she talked about how her ex was dating her old friend and how her friend stabbed the guy and is now in jail. that would have been a date ender for me. I am so glad I am not out there in the dating pool coming across these kind of girls. haha.
Moral of the story: women in their 40's who love “Twilight” may own a knife.
WORD!!!!
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Comment by christian on June 23, 2009 at 12:10pm - love it!
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Comment by LynPhoenyx on May 24, 2009 at 6:32pm -
You can be with someone for 5 years, live together the whole time, then marry them....for some reason things change!
Those little things that use to bug you but you could ignore, yeah you can't ignore anymore.
Wait until a child comes along!
Wait for a baby!!! Enjoy the honeymoon period!
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Comment by Napablue on May 22, 2009 at 3:41pm -
Kinsey, you read the blog, what do you think?
J-Si, it's great that your mom loves Kinsey, many don't warm up to the DIL. This won't end, either. Let's see:
J-Si, we need a bigger house for the baby. Kinsey, it'll stretch our budget.
J-Si, get rid of the bike, you're a daddy. Kinsey, it's my only toy.
J-Si, I want another baby. Kinsey, I just got used to our first.
J-Si, no more babies, go get fixed. Kinsey, it's more like go get broken.
And you know what? After all that, you'll both grow old together and enjoy bouncing your grandkids on your knee. Love brings peace.
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Comment by Yvette Adams on May 20, 2009 at 1:17pm - You are so adorable! Why can't there be more men like you? This World would be a better place. Kinsey is a blessed girl. Adios!
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Comment by Tanaya on May 20, 2009 at 7:33am -
Honestly? It sounds like you and her should look into marriage counseling. It sounds like you are both still insecure and personally telling your SO that they cant go out because you won't be there to chaperone is immature at best and totally controlling at worst. You have the right to your feelings about her and the ex chatting but, using the line "maybe we shouldn't get married" just brings to light that you two have some issues that need be worked out before you get married. A couple of rings and a piece of paper won't fix those things. Go into this with your eyes wide open.
-speaking from experience
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Comment by Molly on May 19, 2009 at 4:06pm - I guess I'm a little surprised that you too are having issues like this even after being together so long...I sense some insecurity on your end and I think it would be good for you and Kinsey to talk about it...get it out there and move past it so that you can both enjoy the planning and the actual wedding itself!! My husband and I had so much fun registering for our gifts and taste testing different cakes! And Jamaica was awesome! I would recommend it for your honeymoon if you don't already have plans! Best of luck to y'all!
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Comment by Shandra on May 19, 2009 at 8:38am - Try your best not to throw the "maybe we shouldn't get married" card out there all the time. That will definitley make her insecure about her decision to marry you.
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Comment by Shawn on May 18, 2009 at 11:50am - The time leading up to my wedding day was the most stressfull time in our entire relationship. She was working 40 hours a week planning a wedding and going to school part-time. I learned to step back and wait for her to tell me my opinion on something. Now that the wedding is over, it's been the best 3 years of my life
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Comment by Andrew Staffier on May 18, 2009 at 10:23am - It's a small thing J-Si !! Live, laugh, and tomorrow is right there!!
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