I think enough time has passed now for me to bring this up. I met this one girl on a dating site and we chatted for a few days and we finally agreed to meet up at my bar on a Friday night. She said she would bring a friend. Of course thats fine. I know it takes a lot for a girl to go meet a guy by herself. But when she showed up, she actually had 3 girl friends with her. Ok, that still was fine I guess. She showed up with a squad. But here’s my question… Am I supposed to buy drinks for the entire crew?
They sat at the bar in what I call “prime seating” and when the bartender asked if they wanted drinks, all of them said no. But by the looks of these girls, they were thirsty. They even looked parched. But, I felt awkward asking if I could buy the one girl a drink and not her friends. But I also felt like they had a plan on showing up and getting free drinks. This ain’t that kind of party. They just all looked like they were expecting free drinks. So, I just sat there with the group on a Friday night, sitting at the bar, and none of us drank. After, about 15 minutes of trying to chat with this girl, I got up to “take care of something.” After about 10 minutes, I rejoined the group and a couple minutes later, they decided it was time to go. I haven’t talked to her since. She kinda put the “Bum” in Bumble!