Social networking is a weird thing. These days, I use Instagram almost exclusively of course using Facebook and Twitter for work-related things. I am not ashamed to admit it, but I found myself scrolling through people that recently followed me and picking out some hot guys. I mean, it’s not stalking if they stalked you first right? I really don’t consider any internet prowling stalking…I prefer to call it “research”. I’m just taking a mental poll on who is out there and what type of people follow me. I’d say most are normies, but there are still those who send the occasional nude photo that I would prefer to not see. Sadly I’m talking about women, never men. I love lesbians! But, I’m not one. Speaking of meeting people online, I took a big step and downloaded the Tinder app everyone has been talking about. I haven’t set up a profile yet, because I don’t think I’d actually use it, but every single person I know has the app. I was starting to feel left out at dinner this past weekend when everyone at the table was Tindering, even my married friends. I thought this was supposed to be a hookup app, but I get the impression that it’s more of a self-esteem system. My friends just want to be ranked as hot.

Gift dilemmas. This is something that goes through everyone’s head I’m sure…or at least all the women feel me. What happens when you get a nicer gift for someone than they got you? Or the reverse and they feel bad? I know we all have different levels of friends and money doesn’t equal love by any means. But what is the solution here. I love to be overly generous with my closest few friends. Then again, I get the impression that they feel bad if I get them something more valuable or nicer than what they got me. I don’t care about value, I care about thought. This brings to me the real issue on my mind. Let’s give the hypothetical situation (not related to me at all:), what happens if you don’t know if you’re dating someone or not because you don’t want to be all girly and have that kind of conversation, but now it’s the holidays and you don’t know if you should get them a cool gift. What a dumbass I am going to feel like if I get something super creative and he’s like….”ugh, cool thanks just drop it off at the house.”?