A North Carolina mom posted a video after sleeping over in her daughter’s dorm for her first night at college. Now people are arguing over whether that’s fun and cute, or way overbearing.

Hundreds of people liked a comment that said, “This is gross and weird. Have some boundaries. Say goodbye to your kid and go cry in the car like everyone else. Let them live their lives.”

Others think it’s perfectly fine and heartwarming. The girl’s roommate hadn’t moved in yet, so what’s the harm?