A therapist on TikTok is racking up the hits with his technique to weed out the creeps on a dating site AFTER you’ve matched. He says the “texting phase” is the perfect time to figure that out, and he lists five things to look for.

@therapyjeff The Texting Phase is the perfect time to start weeding out the creeps! #datingadvice #relationshipgoals #dating #creeps #textingstage #mentalhealth ♬ original sound – TherapyJeff