Kellie found an article on Facebook written by Ebrahim Aseem. He shares his thoughts on why men don’t commit to loyal women. Listen check out his thoughts below and read the full article HERE!

 
 
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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor My new article drops tonight!

A photo posted by Ebrahim Aseem (@fuel4thebody) on Mar 10, 2016 at 7:17am PST

my #NewArticle Link in my bio. If she gives you time, spoil her w/ effort w/o her having to ask. #EbrahimAseem Models: @kittysoftpaws215 💍 @djjammin

A photo posted by Ebrahim Aseem (@fuel4thebody) on Mar 20, 2016 at 5:09pm PDT

Man challenge. #CourtHer #GenuineWomenOnly You don't want to date me. I don't text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. #EbrahimAseem I don't Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it's real. I don't ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don't talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever w/ one. If you only want a bae, I'm not for you. #EbrahimAseem I don't care if you got curves, if I can't take you out, pay the bill & court you, get your fine, "talkingship" ass away from me. Speaking life to a group of 415 college men. #12yrMaleMenor

A photo posted by Ebrahim Aseem (@fuel4thebody) on Feb 21, 2016 at 12:54pm PST

Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

A photo posted by Ebrahim Aseem (@fuel4thebody) on Feb 29, 2016 at 10:00am PST

My mother raised a future husband not a future baby daddy. #tbt I'm tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has looks & curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. #EbrahimAseem If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each other's spirit? Promote each other's growth? align each others chakras? activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk or back that ass up #EbrahimAseem Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Men, let's stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem

A photo posted by Ebrahim Aseem (@fuel4thebody) on Mar 17, 2016 at 9:40am PDT